Sirf Nikah Ki Niyat
Aaj kal bohot se log jab rishta dhoondhne ka sochte hain,
toh unke dimaag mein confusion aa jata hai.
Online rishta ka matlab aksar dating samajh liya jata hai,
jab ke har koi yeh nahi chahta.
Bohot si Muslim ladkiyan aur unke parents sirf ek simple cheez chahte hain —
nikah, izzat ke saath.
Koi timepass nahi, koi unclear baatein nahi.
Islam mein niyat bohot important hoti hai.
Nikah sirf shaadi ka naam nahi,
balkay ek zimmedari, ek amanat hoti hai.
Jab niyat clear hoti hai, toh dil ko bhi sukoon milta hai.
Is category mein kya milega?
Yahan hum un baaton par baat karte hain jo aksar log mehsoos karte hain,
lekin bol nahi paate.
Confusion, pressure, aur woh sawal jo dil ke andar reh jaate hain.
Is poore section ka focus ek hi cheez par hai —
nikah ki niyat ko clear rakhna.
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Nikah vs Dating ka farq:
Aaj ke time mein yeh farq samajhna bohot zaroori ho gaya hai.
Dating aur nikah ka approach bilkul alag hota hai,
aur Islam clarity aur boundaries ko kyun ahmiyat deta hai,
yeh hum simple alfaaz mein samjhate hain.
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Clear intention kyun zaroori hai:
Jab niyat clear nahi hoti, toh emotional stress badhta hai.
Especially ladkiyon ke liye yeh bohot exhausting ho sakta hai.
Clear intention time waste aur unnecessary pain se bachata hai.
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Halal rishta process:
Ek aisa rishta process jahan baat cheet had mein rehti hai,
pressure nahi hota,
aur decisions Islamic boundaries ke andar liye jaate hain.
Sab kuch dheere, aur samajh ke.
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Islamic clarity on marriage intention:
Quran aur Islamic teachings humein yeh yaad dilati hain
ke nikah ka maqsad sirf shaadi karna nahi hota,
balkay sukoon, aman aur zimmedari hoti hai.
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Timepass culture se kaise bacha jaye:
Kaise pehchaanein ke samne wala waqai serious hai,
ya sirf baat kar raha hai.
Aur kaise apni izzat aur dignity ko protect kiya ja sakta hai,
bina rude bane.
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Family involvement ka role:
Wali aur elders ka role kab aata hai,
aur kyun unka involve hona process ko zyada safe banata hai.
Family ka saath bohot si confusion ko pehle hi clear kar deta hai.
Agar aap bhi yeh sab mehsoos kar chuke hain,
ya abhi bhi confusion mein hain,
toh aap akelay nahi hain.
Yeh jagah un logon ke liye hai
jo sirf nikah ke liye serious hain — dil se.